Release Your Inner-Viking

How to be both direct and truly nice? This is a conundrum for many of us. I am half Scandinavian and half Germanic, a classic Minnesotan. Fortunately I have lived in a few other places (including Africa and Guatemala) and have let other styles of communication rub off...

When NOT to Have That Conscious Conversation

So many people are talking about crucial conversations, courageous conversations, candid conversations and constructive conversations.  I am all for them.  I regularly coach and teach people how to have them and have plenty of them myself.  I call them Conscious...

Happy Brave Thanksgiving

This Thanksgiving I imagine you may be sitting down with family and/or friends to enjoy a meal.  When you do there will probably be a conversation.  If there are football fans there may be some comments about a recent game.  If there are people with different...

Presentation: Going Beyond Minnesota Nice

“Out beyond ‘too nice’ and ‘not so nice’, there is a field, I’ll meet you there.” Do you find yourself leading discussions where really important things, things that impact your bottom line, go unsaid?  Would you like to grow your capacity to welcome diversity? Do you...