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Ask Boldly for What You Want
by Tom Esch | Dec 10, 2012 | Using Your Power Effectively, Blog
There are lots of ways in which power is misused. Sometimes it looks like unethical business decisions or sexual misconduct (as I wrote about in Misuse of Power—Part I) and other times it looks more benign—like a leader who is lost in their ego-self or taking up too much air space.
How to Silence a Barking Dog
by Tom Esch | May 29, 2012 | Interpersonal Communication, Blog
It was a hot summer. We had the windows open on many nights. Our neighbors, who live about 15’ from us, had a variety of dogs living at their house that summer.
What’s That Costing You?
by Tom Esch | Apr 14, 2012 | Interpersonal Communication, Blog
What are the not-yet resolved conflicts costing your business in dollars and emotions?
Words Can Wound Deeply
by Tom Esch | Nov 19, 2011 | Interpersonal Communication, Blog
Be aware of attacking others with biting words, or even unconscious messages, they may go into hiding in a corner of your family or organization for a long time. If someone is making you mad at work or home please process your feelings with someone else first.
How to Handle a Meeting Hijacker
by Tom Esch | Aug 17, 2011 | How to Handle Polarizing Topics and Challenging People, Blog
Who at your place or work hijacks meetings or conversations? What is the result of this behavior? Has anyone ever tried to intervene? What might it take to do so and what would be the benefits to the organization?
Street Fight at My House
by Tom Esch | Jun 27, 2011 | How to Handle Polarizing Topics and Challenging People, Blog
There was a street fight right in front of our house, in Minneapolis, on New Year’s Eve last year at about 2 a.m. A group of eight young men, probably 16-18 yrs old, yelling and screaming and punching. They were either drunk or high or both and very loud.
Your Life Feeling Like a Battle? Learn From a Master Warrior
by Tom Esch | Dec 11, 2023 | Using Your Power Effectively, Blog
Do you feel like your life is a bit of a battle these days? Are you finding conflict in your home or at your place of work? This is an inspiring little story that might give you a helpful insight.