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The Potentially Devastating Power of Rank
by Tom Esch | Dec 14, 2021 | Blog
Three years ago, I saw Lady Gaga and Bradley Cooper in the successful remake of the movie “A Star is Born” and there was a scene toward the end which captured my attention. Spoiler alert: If you have not seen the movie, you may want to skip this. But I am guessing you...
I know why the driver in Waukesha did it
by Tom Esch | Nov 30, 2021 | Using Your Power Effectively, Blog
Another unbelievable tragedy, just days before Thanksgiving. A driver in Waukesha smashed his vehicle into a crowd this past weekend at a holiday parade, killing six people and injuring well over 40. Why? We all want to know why. Did the gas pedal get stuck? I do...
Why “No News” is Bad News
by Tom Esch | Oct 29, 2021 | Interpersonal Communication, Blog
A client recently said to me, "No news is good news” is not ok with us. He was talking about safety in his company. I loved his comment. When it comes to safety and healthy work culture for those working in high-risk environments, you could reframe it as “No news is...
Police officers and George Floyd: What side are u on?
by Tom Esch | May 26, 2021 | How to Handle Polarizing Topics and Challenging People, Blog
George Floyd was killed by Derek Chauvin, a year ago yesterday. Just a few miles from where our family lived for 18 years. A huge loss for all who knew Mr. Floyd. And a lot of years in prison for Mr. Chauvin. Tragic on multiple levels. It disrupted us as a...
Is Crappy Communication Causing You Headaches?
by Tom Esch | Mar 30, 2021 | Interpersonal Communication, Blog
Is crappy communication an issue in your life? Has it also impacted your business? Do not fear, there is hope. I have been there. 20 years ago while my wife and I were overwhelmed and exhausted with our son who didn't sleep well. She asked me at 3 a.m. to,...
Ex-Priest turned Construction Guy: Now Author!
by Tom Esch | Feb 25, 2021 | Interpersonal Communication, Blog
Can you believe it? I used to be a priest. Why did I leave and what did I learn? And how did I get into construction? Come to my Book Release Party March 25th and find out. I wrote this book to help others communicate more effectively and use their personal power...
Why Well-Being Matters in Communication
by Tom Esch | Dec 23, 2020 | Interpersonal Communication, Wellness/Mental Health/Stress Relief, Blog
How is your well being? Physically, financially, emotionally? Maybe you had a great year, personally and professionally. Perhaps you had a horrible year. Most likely it was a mix. Many believe that our well being comes, in large part, from the way we access and use...
Practical, post-election support for you
by Tom Esch | Nov 5, 2020 | How to Handle Polarizing Topics and Challenging People, Blog
Too close to call. We do not yet know for sure who the next President will be. A lot of people are feeling anxious now. Maybe your breathing is shallow even as you read this. Are you taking at least 5 seconds to exhale? (always better to exhale a little longer...
Are You Exhaling Long Enough?
by Tom Esch | Nov 4, 2020 | Wellness/Mental Health/Stress Relief, Blog
Too close to call. We do not yet know for sure who the next President will be in the USA. A lot of people are feeling anxious now. Maybe your breathing is shallow even as you read this. Are you taking at least 5 seconds to exhale? (always better to exhale a little...
Waking Up in the Wake of the Racial Unrest
by Tom Esch | Sep 28, 2020 | How to Handle Polarizing Topics and Challenging People, Blog
This is mostly my personal reflections on current events. I hope my thoughts inspire you to speak up respectfully about what you believe, with an open heart to listen to others who have different ideas from you. We are in the middle of a giant, dangerous racial...
